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Search Menu. What does it mean to you to have a "successful social life"? Why is it or is it not important to develop a successful social life in college? What are strategies for developing a fulfilling social life in college? Below are some of the responses. As far as social life, I can't stress enough the importance of at least trying to get out and be involved. It really doesn't matter in what- clubs, teams, friends, whatever It won't be easy Social life in college is imperative for your own sanity and for learning how to interact with people.
In many cases, people make lasting friendships in college. We live and work in a world where groups of people solve problems- especially in the areas of science, math, and engineering. Therefore, these people coming out of college will have trouble succeeding because they do not have the higher social skills required in this situation. Yes, you learn academically in college, however, the social skills learned are more important I found people to be a lot more open in college than in high school, and I learned about socializing with others in college, and am still learning in graduate school.
In college, I made most of my friends in classes, in the dining hall, at the foreign language table, and at the Lutheran Ministry at my university. I am still in touch with several people I met during my college years. I think I've learned from being with people, too. Mostly it's made being with people much easier for me.
I'm not so self-conscious or uncertain of myself. Friends have also re-introduced me to things like crayons and taught me card games and so on. Not only is it fun to hang out with people, but it's emotionally uplifting. Life wouldn't be as worthwhile without friends. I think college consists of both social and academic learning. As I look back on my undergraduate days, I remember a lot more social times with other people than I do lectures or exams.
And I'm not really a people person, either. I know I learned a lot from the social end of things. Some of that learning was painful, because when you make friends, people sometimes give feedback which you need but wouldn't otherwise get about behavior and attitude. This is part of people relating to one another, and causes necessary growth. Mostly though, socializing is fun, and being by yourself is lonely. College teaches you many things if it works right. How to interact with many people in many different ways and on many different levels, but it also gives you information and hopefully enhances problem-solving and thinking for yourself skills.
In college, one has the challenge of balancing academic demands with social pleasures. That is something that will be important later on, too. I believe that this type of socialization turns out professional associations that last. Now that I am a computing professional, these relations continue. We have careers in common and I rely on others to give me important information. My friends also rely on me to feed them information. In many cases for blind people socializing is the key to academics With their help we can get the descriptions we need.
Therefore, socializing is, as I have said, imperative. Academics is the road we use to get there. After academics or dorm life, we can branch out into wider social circles. It is a progression. Having a successful social life will make your college career easier for many reasons. First, with a social life, a person does not feel lonely because you have friends to talk to and listen to. Secondly, you can get help from your friends if you need help. For example, you can study those killer midterms with friends!
Third, a person would have more chances to form a relationship which we believe is important to people. Fourth, it will make you a "well-rounded" person and most companies will look for that when you look for a job. I have seen people who had a good social life in life and college.
This is a key skill that you need to learn in college. In your professional career, you need to do this with your career and family. In college and "real" life you need a lot of support to even survive on your own. My social contacts came from communities of shared interest. Pretty much any religious or political interest, extracurricular activity or hobby can work if you use it.
For me, the debate team and the foreign language house provided communities where I felt accepted and had a good time. The interest I guess you get a chance to know a person spiritually first Living in the dorms helped immensely in immersing me in the college social life. Without the contact in the dining halls, my social life would only have been half as good at best. My social life revolves mostly around people on my floor or in the NASA program. I'm in Intervarsity Christian fellowship, too, and know people in it, but I got involved in that through people on my floor last year.
A lot of my social life surrounded my career goals. I wanted to be a programmer and hung around the computer lab-not exactly beer and pizza, but it was very social. I think I learned more from the other students than from my professors. There was great interaction and sharing of ideas and concepts. There are many strategies to fulfilling social life in college. A popular way is to a fraternity or sorority on campus. Through this, you can get a lot of friends from your house.
Second way is to a club that matches your interest. I prefer this way because it matches your interests with other people. I have a lot of friends by ing a club. Third way, similar to ing a fraternity, is to live in a dorm. This is a good way for people who don't want to a frat. Socializing that is connected to your schoolwork is very valuable, too. I made one good friend in college in a class we were taking together.
Every week, we got together and worked on the homework together. The best part was that we were able to help each other, so that it was not one-sided. During my first year as a graduate student, I also frequently discussed problem sets with my classmates. This gave me good experience for collaborating with others on research. You just need to smile at people and look receptive. You should take some time to go to a common place in your dorm and talk to the people there. I think that blind people face the particular challenge of not being able to walk up to someone with whom they would like to talk unless they hear their voice or the person introduces him or herself.
In the dining hall, for example, I always asked someone to help me find a seat, but that person would not necessarily know the people I liked to sit with, so it was a game of chance. Sometimes I met people, sometimes I happened to sit next to good friends, and sometimes I was unable to in the conversations around me. However, by making friends in certain interest groups and arranging to meet friends for a meal, I was able to keep in touch with the people I cared about.
I understand that for some people making friends is not that easy as it is for others. But if you would treat people in a friendly manner, they are going to treat you the same. Whereas, if you feel yourself so different from others and would not talk to them then you will find yourself totally out of place. Everyone is the same and different, too. This is what is so good about the world.I need to socialize
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